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Name: Caroline
Country: United States
State: North Carolina
Metro: Charlotte
Gender: Female
Interests: the Lord, DDR,making art out of everyday objects, colors, the mall, chucks, people watching, cleaning other people's houses, dark blue bedrooms, small things, random books, pretending im asleep, japanese street fashion, keychains, anything awesome and creative, plastic novelty toys, 50's suburban culture, all forms of art and music, growing, velcro, animals, emotions, riding in cars with or without boys, talking, getting to know you, asking questions, love, hardcore intercession, learning, friends, seeing people redeemed, screaming, writing, drawing, tiny food, not being apathetic.etc.
Expertise: putting things in my mouth
Occupation: Student
Industry: Art
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Member Since:
1/18/2004
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| its not ok for kids to throw their oatmeal at their parents. no matter
how old they are. it is never cute. it is always annoying and disrespectful. and when
your child says cuss words, its never cute, it is always degrading and
sad. i think the reason why our culture is so youth focused is because
a lot of parents are so concerned with making their kids happy instead
of teaching them right from wrong, they dont think its ok for kids to
cry sometimes, so they let them have their way. and the children appear
to be happy. and more and more things are being made for children. and
family oriented has become let the kids do whatever the hell they want
while the parents suffer through the noise and absurdity. the noise and
absurdity has a place sometimes, but there has to be a limit.
whenever i start to write. whether it be on this or like in a journal.
or in microsoft word, i keep going back to this subject. i really dont
know why i even care about it. yeah i do know why, because its
important and i feel that when structure in family crumbles so does
society. its true. and i feel bad for kids who's parents dont give a
shit. and how people feel like they dont have control over their own
lives and like they are a victim of circumstance because they never
learned to take responsibility for their actions.
i've never been a parent and the only experience i've had with kids is
random babysitting, and then my cousins. but i just want to tell every
parent, your child doesnt know anything about behaving right, when he
pops out. but kids are easy, i swear. its not a big deal. back in the day
they had to do everything without the modern conveniences that we rely
so heavily on today, and it was normal to have about 10 kids.
you already have the upper hand BECAUSE you are the parent. also you
are smarter than your kids. and when he acts like a dumbass, he doesnt
know what hes doing, and just because he's acting like that doesnt mean
he has ADD or some bullshit psychological disorder. and no, it wont
sort it self out with time, you have to teach him. that is why kids
have parents, parents are teachers!
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| IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMMMM TIRED.
the fact that i have to get up in 2.5 hours makes it hard for me to go
to sleep anyways. AHHHHHH its so bright in my room. fuck sunshine! for
now. i like the sun, but now when im tired. omgomgomgomg
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| Snuggle.
he's the Laundry Bear!
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| every time i go to target or any other place, theres always some random
child screaming and running or being mean to their brother or sister or
throwing a tantrum because he wants a toy, and im like "wtf where are
his parents?" his parents are right behind him, doing nothing to
correct their kid's behaviour. and like children just take shit over!
and its chaotic because kids dont know what they are doing, by default
. i went to a wedding reception a while ago and there were kids like,
rolling around on the ground while the bride and groom were dancing and
im like, "wtf?! this isnt right" and it used to be when kids did things
like that i was like "oh that'll be corrected because their parents
will do something about it" but now i just feel like parents dont care
or they just think that their childrens behavior is justified because
they are kids, adn that itll just "sort itself out later."
im not a control freak i just know its not right and it shouldnt be
happening. and its really hard for me to ignore this. The reason im
saying all this isnt because its annoying to hear kids scream, im
honestly not all that annoyed by the sound of screaming. it's just
really unsettling to look at PARENTS not do ANYTHING about their kid's
behavior. in my opinion if you love somebody, you're gonna want them to
not look like a dumbass when they are out in public, you want them to
know right and wrong and you dont laugh when your kid is mean to
somebody.
I feel like the concept of family has been really skewed. and
instead of parents teaching their kids right and wrong, and loving them
through their mistakes, they just sort of let them run wild and hope
for the best. and if their kids do end up screaming or throwing a
tantrum because of something random,they throw them over to the
psychiatrist and say "Oh, well he's got ADD. or passive agressive
disorder."
yeah i just want people to get things together and to genuinely love each other and to genuinely love and guide their kids.
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